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mothers and" The myth of Turkish Macho "

I want to draw attention to an interesting TIME article:". The myth of macho Turkish "

An excerpt: " If we want to understand the men have, we understand the relationship with their mothers. As these men were educated, what position they take it? The dominance of the mothers in the Turkish family structure can not be overlooked. The man is conscious or unconscious often squeezed out a close relationship with the children. Often the woman in the family uses this authority over the children. The suffocating embrace of love mothers can hardly escape especially the sons. The sons are often very spoiled and so emotionally attached. They become a sort of "substitute" used and therefore both narcissistic aufgewertet, als auch emotional überfordert. Den Jungen wird das Gefühl gegeben, wichtig und stark zu sein. Dieses Gefühl von Macht und Bedeutsamkeit korrespondiert allerdings in keiner Weise mit der Wirklichkeit, weder draußen, im Kindergarten oder in der Schule (…) Zudem erstickt das ewig besorgte, beschützende, verwöhnende Verhalten türkischer Mütter die Bemühungen des Sohnes, selbstständig zu werden. “

Ja, der Artikel zeigt eine gewisse Einseitigkeit. U.a. wird die Rolle der türkischen Väter außen vor gelassen, die sicherlich auch großen destruktiven Einfluss nehmen und Gewalt ausüben können. (Ein Hinweis an dieser Stelle: Im Grundlagentext I mentioned some studies that showed that violence within families of Turkish origin in relation to German families more often (sometimes fatal) is exercised, including women of Turkish origin were also relatively frequent victims of domestic violence.). However, I think
this article really interesting and important. Ultimately, yes also shows the historical review of Europe that the families often mothers / women in many areas had much power, especially on children. While the men prevailed, especially outside the family, and exercising power. The clear view of "the mothers" in families and their influence on society is far too seldom ventured. Regarding. of child abuse, the proportion of female perpetrator antennae as at least 50%, sometimes more, depending on the study. This is emotional abuse, as in this TIME article mentioned, is due to socialization rather done by women and who also has consequences. Hats should be man / woman in front of a set off the destructive influence of the mother and father. For mental healing - that's the point of the TIME-author in fact - the clear view of the influence of both parents is necessary.

This article is otherwise an even me that I have this look on the (possible, destructive ) Influence of women within the family in many feminist publications, but also in other societal debate very miss. More than that, I think this look urgently needed social "recovery process" continue to work ever again. On the other hand, I also do not like the one-sidedness when it reports on time mothers, such as in this TIME article. Since then sweeping "the mothers" and sentenced them the real power granted (which is also common in psychoanalytic writings very much, so my impression).

Actually it would have to mean in relation to men: "If we want to understand men, we need to understand the relationship with their mothers and fathers. "